Getting a massage is an excellent to de-stress and feel better almost immediately. Massages are one of those alternative remedies that can improve your overall physical health, and improve your mental health also. Getting a massage is good for our bodies but what about giving a massage? If you’re looking to give a massage for your partner or spouse, then this article is for you.
There are a few tips that I will share with you in this article that will make giving a massage simple and easy. You should know that you don’t have to get the technique right immediately – just try to focus on the end result. Your goal should be to make your partner feel good and to relax them. Now that we’ve established what your goal should be, let’s take a look at some ways that you can make this goal come to life.
The first thing that you will want to do is use a lubricant. Your hands need to slide loosely across your partner’s body and they will give you the motion that you need to give an effective massage. Using a lubricant almost always makes the massage better, so pick one that is gentle for the skin. Lubricants help to prepare the skin and to protect it from the harsh rubbing that you will be doing.
Now that we’ve established that you need a good lubricant, lets talk about what you don’t want to do. Never use Vaseline to massage your partner. It’s just an ineffective lubricant to put on a person’s body. You should strive to use massage oil. Lotions and petroleum jelly aren’t easily absorbed by the skin. Using Vaseline can actually damage a person’s skin if you’re not careful, so keep this in mind.
When giving the actual massage, to give a good one, you will want to massage the muscle – not the bone. You shouldn’t even aim at massaging the skin; go for the muscle parts as this is the area where your partner is most tense. For example, you should know that you can practice on yourself. Rub your fingers over the skin of your chest and press harder as you move across your chest muscles. You should feel a significant difference between caressing your chest and massaging it.
You want to go for penetration. You may accidentally tickle someone is you just caress the skin, and this is something that you don’t want either. Your goal should be to deliver pleasure to your recipient – not to have them tickle all through the session.
Try your best to stay away from the bones also. Stick with massaging the muscles and you will be good to go.
Good luck with giving a massage to your partner.